Communication » 2A Interacting
What makes a friend
A friend is a person with who you can escape from the loneliness.
There are basically 6 kinds of friend:
•- The "False Friend": he's a person who you meet everywhere; he can be a classmate, a teacher or just a person who wait the same bus as you. The only thing you can do with him is pass your time.
•- The "Stupid Friend" : he's a person with who you have yet a good relationship. He loves very much jokes and, usually, is the only thing he can do well. With him you can't make a serious dialogue, you can just joke.
•- The "Friend": he's a person who knows your hobbies, what do you do in your live, what will you became, what will you do and what do you think about some things not so important. He encourage you and tell you what do you want do you want to hear. You can talk with him about your future, you can play with him, you can joke with him, you can pass your time.
•- The "Big Friend": he's not too different from the "Friend", but he knows your opinion about important things as the religion, the politic... He said you what he think about those things and can help you to decide something.
•- The "Sex Friend": she's a "Big Friend" with who you have a special relation who is very easy to imagine.
•- The "Best Friend": he's a person who know everything about you, also the things you don't know about yourself. With him you can talk about everything, he will ever help you when you need him. You can have just one or two friends like him in your live. He IS you life himself. He's more than a friend. He's a friend, a brother and also a part of you.
What make me suffer
What make me suffer? What is "the pain"? Yes, scientifically, the pain is an electric signal who is reached by your brain. This is the physical pain. But was is the emotional pain? Was is the empathy? How can I answer this question if I cannot explain the pain? Yes, if a person will answer he can do it easily : the betrayal make me suffer. It's a correct answer. It's simple, direct and everyone can use that. But I think it's not so easy. I think that every answer must be make watching in ourselves, in our soul, in our heart; not in our brain. There is an important thing that we shouldn't forget: if we suffer for ourselves or if we suffer for another one person. If we suffer for another one person, we suffer only for the betrayal; a real betrayal or the sensation of a betrayal. If we suffer for ourselves, the thing is more difficult. In that case, everyone is culpable. Culpable of didn't do something, culpable of didn't had seen our in pain. To escape from this pain, we should find a person who symbolise for us the reason of our pain. We must find that person and face him. We must beat him. We must win. Only after, we can fight with ourselves to beat the same emotion, the same person; but in our hearts, in our souls. Only after, we will be free.