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4PLSC - NCasotto - listening n.1 : relationships
by NCasotto - (2018-11-04)
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Nowadays relationship is meaningful for people and in particular for teens because of development of them. There are many different steps of teenagers’s lives from their childhood to their adolescence, indeed different psychologists study teens’s behavior and comportment.

First of all, she starts with saying during their childhood, children are used to see the world through their parents’s eyes and accept their decisions. She considers them as a tabula rasa, a white paper in which everything could be print.

Secondly, when they go to school, she states that meet up new people and learn how means socialize with their peers; but, when they became teenagers, thing became very complex: indeed the psychologist affirms they start to challenge their parents’s authority and decisions and begin to enter in peer group.
That peer group in one hand are positive because help teens to be more sociable and responsible of what they do, but on the other hand them influence teens negatively because of stating smoke, drink, have an aggressive behavior.
Moreover, they are influenced by peer pressure: in particular when they are affected by what their peers do in everything whether positive or negative.

So, in this years of teens’s life, relationship are very important because is a relation between people or groups in which they fell and behave towards each other.
Although, is thanks to this relations if teenagers and all people have an identity: relations and contents contribute to create an image and an identity of a person.
Talking about relation, there are many different tips of relationship like scholarship, partnership, leadership and friendship; the last one is the most important because both friendship and relationship are reflected each other because a relationship is a close friendship in which two people are affected by romantic emotions and a friendship is an open relationship because there are only affection’s feelings.

Moreover, as Umberto Galimeberti said on one of his conferences, human being is social animal that tends to create relationship with all people around him or her. That’s is a characteristic of all humans begin so the matter thanks to with a person is different from an other, is the propensity to create this relation: one person could be more inclinate to relate mainly with others

Concluding, we should have different friendship or relationship, that will be solid when a person is down or depressed and need the help of a friend to cheer up.
So, he or she creates identity thanks to relationship