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TSegatto - Cases and Problems. Adolescence (2)
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WHAT MAKES A GOOD FRIEND


There are several caracters for a good friend and it depends on the single person too. It's diffucult to find a true friend. A good friend isn't only a unusual person who stays with you, but a special person who listen to you about your problems. He is able to critict your opinions and respect what you have to say. And this is correct, so you can take act that you have said or thought something wrong. He/she will have to comfort and help you when you are in a difficult situation. He/she won't have to think on himself/herself. You can tell him/her something personal for discuss together. He/she also doesn't confess your problems at others, but he/she conservs your secrets. Good friends don't just go with the flow, and they have to be honest and tell you what they really think. The sign of a good friendship is when you can be totally honest with the other person, without offending. But this doesn't understand that he/she can't say you funny words. It's a nice joke! Although in several moments a good friend will be able to say you bad think when you are wrong, even if you are sick. A good friend doesn't abandon at the first difficult moment, but he remains with you. So he is present when you need him. A life with a good friend is special because you share great moments and have a lot of fun together.




WHAT MAKES ME SUFFER


There are a lot of things which can make us suffer. Especially the people who they can hurt you with simple words. You can be flabbergasted and think on that argument for a long time. But there are other worse things than these. For example an attitude of a person or a simple behavior. Other people can treat you badly without any reason. The only person who can help you to throw out the pain is the same who causes it. Something may hurt us if we remember it when we have tried to forget it and to sew up the injury. We may also suffer if we find a person not to be like we imagined, and he/she has pulled our leg or has betrayed our trust. So this person goes away by us. Not only other people may hurt us. We may also suffer for reasons which don't depend on others, but on ourselves. For example when we make a mistake and we take act about it. We would like to go back in the time. We may also suffer for others. When we see someone sad or in orrible situation, we would like to help him but we can do nothing for him and we think like gladden. A simple quarrel may also hurt us. For example with a special person, you remain badly because you remember all moments we spent together. There are other thinks which they make us suffer and I don't want remember all.