LBravo - Homework 07/03/2019
BOYS AND GIRLS
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People around the girl are convinced that the term “girl” means behaving in a certain mode, and consequently want her to avoid some tomboy behaviors.
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The girl, even after her grandmother reproaches, continues to behave how she used to before.
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She opened Flora's gate as wide as she could.
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She makes her room fancy, spreading the bed with old lace curtains and creating a dressing table.
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She doesn't sing anymore because her brother has told her she sounded silly.
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In her stories now she is rescued by a boy, and a great length of them concerns what she looks like.
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Now she means that she has to behave in a certain way.
They sound so reproachful because they have a completely different vision from the protagonist.
She doesn't feel at ease with this definition.
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It is a symbolic action because once and again she “breaks the rules”.
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Her rearrangement of the room symbolizes a inner change in her: she starts becoming a “real” girl.
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Before they sang at night because they were both children; now it seems silly to them because they are no more bonded by a lot of similarities as before.
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I think there is a sort of separation starting between them, because she is becoming more “girly”, so, being no more a tomboy, she's very different from her brother.
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Before, she was the only heroine; now, sooner or later, she's saved by a boy.
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I think that the society had the greatest role in transforming the girl, indeed, as Margaret Mead said, we are “cultural products” and the two genders are socially connoted. I think that now she's not happy as before, because she's no more spontaneous.
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I think that gender roles have become more malleable today, but they are still present and exercise a great influence on us (for example, boys are still afraid to cry in public because they don't want to appear weak).
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Yes, I have. When I was at a dinner out with my relatives, my mother told me to eat slower and placidly, and from that moment on, when I am with some adults out, I behave like she told me.