We always have to think rationally. For example, let's imagine that our son is affected by a terrible illness like cancer. What would we do? Personally, I would take him to the doctors. It's very important to listen to different opinions before doing something. Once we have decided what cures are better for him, we should always stay next to him and be very supportive. I would suggest also to work harder and for extra-hours so that you could earn more money for the cures.